What Makes a Woman Strong ?

A strong, good woman is a lady who has been through struggles and trails; but seem to withstand the pain by continuing to push forward and keeping a leveled head throughout the low times. Although that woman is going through so much she will still tend to put a smile on her face and help others out as if she do not have problems of her own. She uses her wisdom to enlighten others and lead them using her testimony. A good strong woman is more powerful than she know because she has the ability to take her past circumstances and change lives.The woman who embodies the qualities of being good and strong is self-aware, wise, and isn’t perfect. 

 A good, strong woman is self-aware.She is confident about who she is and doesn’t need validation from anyone other than herself to make her feel valuable. For example, a compliment or insult about her is both neutral in the way that it makes her feel. What people think about her doesn’t effect her negatively or positively, because she knows that those are just opinions and she knows her truth. She’s a leader in a sense because she’s head-strong and doesn’t look to others for affirmation because she is her own guide. The leadership aspect about her is something that draws people towards her for advice and guidance. People are unconsciously attracted to her and that's because her strength gives off an energy when they are around her. I know this to be true because I am that strong woman who is self-aware. I was bullied at a younger age and insults about me throughout the years has helped me become stronger and built immunity towards anyone's opinion. I became a leader because I wasn’t following the crowd, I was always an outsider. Being an outsider taught me how to think on my own and be self-guided. 

She is a wise person. She is strong because her trials have exposed her to many problems which required solutions. She has wisdom because she has adapted to becoming a constant problem solver when the chips are down. She now knows how to handle situations or whether or not she should react to them. Things that she has been through life prepared her for new obstacles which inevitable amplified her knowledge.The wisdom that she now has contributed to her strength and being a better woman. 

Most importantly, a strong and good woman isn’t perfect. She isn’t perfect because she makes mistakes which are why she is so strong. She is learning every day and is using her mistakes as lessons. Her imperfections have made her open to seeing everyone in their goodness because she knows that everyone isn’t perfect either. She doesn’t dwell on her imperfections but instead works on becoming a better person.

Being a good and strong woman consists of many traits but of them all, she must be self-aware, she isn’t perfect, and she has wisdom.She is strong because she knows her value and self-worth which is priceless.She helps people by giving advice from her past circumstances and applies her wisdom for problem-solving circumstances.She isn’t perfect and sh knows it but dent let her imperfections hold her back but instead tries to build herself up. Many women are often patronized and treated unfairly just because they are simply a woman. The treatment and trails that we have faced inevitably make us strong women.